rottedout:

Matt Canino’s hair though…

i like to periodically check in to see just how much of the RVIVR tag is about matt canino’s hair

i am rarely disappointed

Let me tell you something about Derrick Jensen. We were best friends in middle school. I know, right? It’s so embarrassing. I don’t even… whatever. So then in eighth grade, I started going out with my first boyfriend Kyle who was totally gorgeous but then he moved to Indiana, and Derrick was like, weirdly jealous of him. Like, if I would blow him off to hang out with Kyle, he’d be like, “Why didn’t you call me back?” And I’d be like, “Why are you so obsessed with me?” So then, for my birthday party, which was a queer pool party, I was like, “Derrick, I can’t invite you, because I think you might be a transphobic piece of shit.” I mean I couldn’t have him at my party. There were gonna be girls there in their bathing suits. I mean, right? So then his mom called my mom and started yelling at her, it was so divisive. And then he dropped out of school because no one would talk to him, and when he came back in the fall for high school all of his hair was cut off and he was totally weird, and now I guess he fucks salmon.

cynicism isn’t wisdom but i was right to think that theo hilton wouldn’t message me back on okcupid

i feel like i should say something, to mark the occasion, but i’ve spent a year not talking about it and i don’t know how to start now. like - the other day my partner and i were wresting on the mattress (we sleep on the floor, like everyone else in their twenties. their mother is appalled by this. she has offered to buy us a bed.) and i pushed them and laughed, “get off my bed!” and they said “no, this is my bed. you got rid of yours,” and i almost said, smiling, “yes, i did; i was raped in it!” - except i didn’t, because what kind of thing is that to say? who says that? there are so many things that i almost say, but i don’t, because if i say one thing i might say them all and if i started i don’t know how i would ever stop.

it’s the anniversary of my rape so i bought a six pack and am very calmly and thoroughly cleaning the house

still mad about that time max slept in a known rapist’s bedroom and refused my request to shit and/or leave a dead animal in the bed

“he won’t be interested, he’s straight” and “he won’t be interested, he’s gay” are both things i think to myself frequently

SHIT I MESSAGED SOMEONE ON OKCUPID WITHOUT LOOKING AT HIS PICTURES FIRST AND IT WAS THEO HILTON

the inevitable reality of being in an open relationship is that my partner is going to cultivate mutually respectful, fulfilling romances with people they like and trust, and i am going to have sex with the dude who used to sell me coke

my roommate works at a grocery store and last night he was telling me about his favorite customers - a gay couple - and as he described them to me he leaned forward and said very earnestly “i believe they’re known as ‘bears’”

katydidnot:

missvoltairine:

anglerfishfeminist:

Defend rgr

bringing this back as a reminder

taking a stand against rapists and their friends starts @ home

defend rgr

always